Early thirties post-transition stealth Father and Husband
Hey there,
I’m not offline – just working tons and hardly check this place because I tend to come back to a barrage of hostility, and I just don’t need that in my life most times.
It’s messages like this though that keep me wanting to log back in, so thank you.
Hey bear-b-bear, there’s a template on the BDM form if I recall correctly? It’s just a part of the form they have to fill out. It’s all available online, but keep in mind this information is all Australia specific. And I’m not sure if processes are different depending on the state in which you were issued you’re Birth Certificate.
I’ve been thinking about how to post more original content and reblog a little less.
If you have any topic suggestions or questions you might like answered, let me know?
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I often feel like a hypocrite, or paradoxical at the very
least.
I have been stealth for my entire transition, “deep stealth”
for the last nine years. It’s the way I wanted things to be, because being
transsexual is not my identity and is not who I am.
But recently I’ve begun to yearn for some form of… not
visibility per se, but a safe place where I can speak openly about my history
and the issues that go along with being post-transition.
In a town such as this, where being different could mean
something as small as not conforming to the town’s narrow and outdated idea of
dress codes, it feel suffocating to know that those around me would likely
literally harm me if they were to find out about my history.
I am relived that we are fitting in here so well according
to societal norm, while at the same time frustrated with the lack of open
minded individuals. Not even in relation to outing myself, because I guess that’s
not entirely the crux of the problem – more so just feeling as though I can
relate on a wholly human level without a sense of pretence or distain for those
that may not share my views, whatever they may be.
For everyday packing, I generally wear nothing but men’s briefs.
Generally bonds brand, and I pack daily with a peecock. It sits in the underwear just fine, doesn’t shift and it’s easy to pee with those underpants.
I will use a jockstrap when swimming, and a rodeoh harness for sexytime. Or really tight briefs with a fly hole.
Alright so I’m ordering my freetom prosthesis this coming Thursday, will take a while to make and ship so when it arrives I’ll do a review on my first impressions, then I’ll use it for a week and report back.
My wife marriedtoatransman also says she will report back on how she feels the use for sexual purposes is – without too much detail haha.
I have faint scars on my chest which you can sort of see in my Avatar and this picture here (taken years ago).
I had double incision, with NO nipple grafts; that is the surgeon completely removed my natal nipples and areola, and once my chest itself had healed, surgically reconstructed them. The areola coloration was cosmetically tattooed on once nipples had healed.
I chose this type of procedure as I had no care for nipple sensation at all, wanted to be able to choose exactly what size my nipples were and where they were located.
All in all, I am exceptionally happy with the results. Perhaps I’ll get my areola pigmentation touched up, but that’s a perhaps.
As far as scars are concerned, I used nothing at all except Bio-Oil, which I’ve written about here.
I’m a 30 something year old woman who is married to the man of my dreams. Together we have a 9 year…
This is my Wife’s blog – it’s a work in progress so please bear with her. We all don’t have much time.
Click the image to go to my ask box.
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