Hi! I just found your blog after watching your review of the 4in1 prosthetic from FreeToM. In the review you said that you had figured out a harness situation that worked for you. You mentioned that you might post about it on your blog, but I was unable to find a post about it. I was hoping you might expound on your discovery. Thank you!

I had two questions about this, one Anon and one not – so I’ve chosen to answer the Anon one in case the other was meant for private conversation.

So the best possible way I have found to wrangle the FreeTom is; a snug pair of briefs with a fly hole… the one you can poke your dick through. Put the prosthesis against yourself, slip the shaft through the snug briefs hole and then put your regular underwear over the top. I know it’s not ideal because there’s two pairs of jocks – but it’s the “safest” and most discreet way I’ve found to pack with the FreeTom that still allows STP function. In fact, I find when I do this I don’t actually have to hold the prosthesis to me when I pee – the snug underpants do the job just fine. Adjustments may be had throughout the day if it slips a little – but bio guys have to adjust thier junk too.

Do you always use your stp or is there time when you don’t? Like do you sleep with it?

If I am awake and have showered, my STP is in my jocks. Always.

As for pissing, sometimes in the comfort of my own home I’ll sit to pee – especially if the trip to the toilet is for erm, multi tasking? ha.

But as for when I’m out and about, at work etc – I will always stand to pee. The exception to this is occasionally when I am absolutely blind drunk and know there’s significant chance I will piss all over myself if I stand. That would likely happen if I were natal male, anyway. Sometimes the floor moves when you’re drunk.

As for sleeping with it, I generally prefer to sleep with a Mr Limpy or some other smaller kind of packer. I don’t usually have to pee during the night, and having a peecock floating about in your boxer shorts is not as comfortable as a Mr Limpy, which is significantly smaller and squishier.

whats your favourite stp you’ve tried so far?

I’d say as far as “not needing to think about it” and packing is concerned, I prefer the Peecock over any other product I’ve tried.

I never had an issue peeing with it (it’s a Gen 1) and I don’t need to think, or stand awakwardly to use it at a urinal. It feels natural..ish.

But I hate the lack of realism, perhaps the new gen peecock will rectify that disparity.

I see so many STP packers out there and the good ones are ~$200. That’s almost a full months rent for me, and it’s so discouraging. I feel like I’m never going to be able to pack properly and comfortably and it’s making everything so difficult to handle.

I can really relate.
I am in a much better financial situation now than I have been in the past due to steady employment, but being a Father means regardless, you put your child first.

What I think is useful here are reviews: in depth, detailed as hell pictoral and video reviews of products, perhaps even compiled into one place. I’ve thought about doing it myself, but I don’t have the time nor the funds.

For what it’s worth: I have bought over 10 different prosthetics (some STP, some just packers, some play) in my time, and a vast majority have been a waste of money.

What are you looking for in an STP, exactly?

STP anon here. Yeah, I feel the same way with the 5″ packer deal. I contacted ErotiCreations and asked if they would consider doing a 4-4.5″ STP, and they replied it was in the works and said that it should be ready next month. So, if that’s something you’re interested in, I’m just letting you know. Either way, it’s still one of the best-looking STP/packers that I’ve seen for the price.

Cheers for that.

I am interested, but I’ve got to prioritize getting a reliable car now above all else, unfortunately.