Early thirties post-transition stealth Father and Husband
Pictoral breakdown of the “World Simplest Packy Harness”
I used a couple of shoelaces because I didn’t want to take off the harness I was wearing.
If you recognize me, please uphold my confidentiality.
I’m not even sure if this is remotely understandable.
Anon:
If you don’t use an STP this is another great solution; a lot of men’s briefs have a fly that you pull your dick through to pee, but some of them are sewn like little pouches except for a small hole inside and out.
The underpants in the photo are what I am describing. You can just put the packer inside the little pouch – it’s not touching your skin, it’s holding the shaft down and in place and doesn’t move at all.
Packer shown for demonstration is 4" GV Sailor.
For those who follow that are male and happen to be trans; do you pack? With what? Have you found it to be triggering, or the opposite?
All of a sudden I’m really curious.
I pack every day. Quite often during the night, too – but I tend to find that my packer migrates out of my boxers. I am a very restless sleeper.
I use a 4" Gen 1 Peecock, and I really like it better than most other STPs I have tried due to the fact that I don’t need to touch my actual anatomy to pee with it.
I’ve used this harness for years, and I have yet to come across something better in terms of security, simplicity and generally not being able to notice you’re wearing a harness.
I was eternally skeptical, however even the ol’ “boxer brief band with O-ring” is not as secure as this has proven to be for me.
Clear elastic is easily sourced, although I’ve made it with all different types of elastic and it’s still great.
What I especially love about this harness is that it allows one to use an STP easily due to the elastic having a lot of give to move things where you need them to be.
transmandad 