Early thirties post-transition stealth Father and Husband
I haven’t had a new prosthesis for the longest time, but I’ve had the best luck with Peecock’s (and still use one daily, but it’s…erm… falling apart).
Can anyone give me a review of the more recent generations? I’m mostly interested in terms of packing and pissing function, with aesthetic being secondary to those things.
Alright,
I toyed with the idea of turning off anon asks because of the spam/hate I’ve been logging in to lately, but it completely takes away from the entire ability for those who wish not to be identified asking questions to have a safe space which they feel they can.
So I’m going to leave it open, and just deal with the repercussions if any.
K turned 12 this weekend and ever since, he’s had some kind of magic sass about him that is hysterical. He has decided that 12 is the magic “grown up” number, so now he’s actually 12 going on 21.
He had a great birthday and elected to have an entire day just doing family things with the three of us- we took him 10 pin bowling, had a decadent lunch overlooking the river and went to a special lolly shop (candy store) and EB Games. My Son is a huge self professed geek, and is totally gaming obsessed.
After a brief afternoon intermission my Wife and I took him out to his favourite chinese restaurant for his favourite dish; sweet and sour battered pork. He even got a fizzy drink with his meal, which in our house is an extra special treat.
We all had a blast, and it was a much needed respite from the insane work schedule my Wife and I have been keeping, alongside all our “downtime” being used for packing, cleaning and organising things for the move – which just so happens to be TOO DAMN SOON! Haha. We’re freaking out a little bit, but once we’ve got all our shit at the new place I’ll feel a lot better. I have this thing where I must leave a rental in better condition than when we moved in, so I’ll have to do a good deep clean inside and out after everything has been moved out.
My best mate is coming to help us clean and stuff in a few weeks, and I’m really looking forward to having him here.
Thanks for all the questions. I hope I do them justice with my answers.
We get the keys on the 9th of September.
They originally wanted it to be the 2nd of September- which is actually our 4th wedding anniversary (ohh, it’s a ~sign~) but we needed that few extra days of leeway so I can take some Annual Leave at work and actually physically move our stuff.
I’m still in awe that this is happening.
All K cares about is that we said he can get a cat once we’re in our own place, and he can paint his room any colour he likes. Haha, priorities.
How does one make friends?
I’ve never been the best at it – especially around here with most other men being sexist and misogynistic at best, downright racist, close-minded and abusive at worst.
I always feel like other men will “clock” me – so I only let people in so far before I shut them out.
I’m so busy this doesn’t really matter, but it does occasionally make me feel like there’s something missing.
I’m blessed to have mates that will travel to see me and vice versa, but it would be super nice to go to the bar with a few local mates and shoot the shit once in a while.
K was up the entire night vomiting with a pretty bad stomach bug.
Wifey is taking the day off work to care for him/take him to the Dr and I’m downing a million coffees before I head off to work.
Kiddo is pretty lucky that at almost 12 this is the worst illness he’s had – he can’t recall having a stomach bug before. On the downside it also meant he was absolutely seriously convinced he was dying – poor thing!
Parenting hey?
Hey there,
I’m not offline – just working tons and hardly check this place because I tend to come back to a barrage of hostility, and I just don’t need that in my life most times.
It’s messages like this though that keep me wanting to log back in, so thank you.
Hey there,
To be frank I’d avoid the freetom. It was just too large to do anything besides fuck with, for me anyway. Having a giant sausage in your pants becomes awkward and convenient for packing purposes.
But I found that using tight briefs gave me the best chances of actually being able to pack with it 🙂
I can see that I have messages to respond to and I’ll get to them ASAP.
We made an offer on a house and it’s been accepted so I’m busily freaking out and dealing with the purchasing process.
Contracts yet to be signed but we fucking did it! 💑🏡💃
Buying a home is stressful and we haven’t even made an offer on one yet.
Saw three today.
One of which is great but beyond what we want to spend, especially as I’d replace the carpeting and update the kitchen/bathroom. Which I can easily do myself but materials are still an expense to consider.
Our theory is spend as little as possible and pay it off as quickly as possible.
We don’t want a show home, but with a soon-to-be-teenager we’d like room enough for K to have his own dedicated space(s) and room enough for our constant influx of visitors. I like my own space.
I’m just not sure we can manage the latter and the former at the same time.
I feel blessed to even be able to consider these things, but that certainly doesn’t make it any less stressful.
Still alive!
Been working a lot, dealing with a little man who is becoming hormonal and also attempting to educate backwoods Doctor’s who apparently think it’s hysterical to make it very difficult for me to access Testosterone.
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