Check me out! i start testosterone April 5th!

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thatsnothowitworks:

flamingcentaurette:

thatsnothowitworks:

skylerpiercetheysexyemokidha:

Subscribe and tell me what i should do or talk about in my videos! If you want too!

How’s that phallo treating you?

Correct me if I’m wrong, but (last time I checked) it’s usually best to go on T before getting phallo done. 

I’m unsure if there are actually any surgeons who will perform phallo or meta on you if you are not on hormones for a minimum of 2 years.  His story didn’t add up anyway.  Check http://theotheropinion.tumblr.com/tagged/skylerpiercetheysexyemokidha

I asked him a question perhaps 20 minutes ago inquiring which surgeon did his bottom surgery, and seem to have been blatantly ignored. I wonder why!?

Check me out! i start testosterone April 5th!

Do you think there are any good parts about being trans? I mean there is so much shitty stuff there must be something right?

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I had to think on this a while.

I tend to note all the terrible things regarding being trans, which are numerous obviously. But the only good thing I can think of somewhat is that my female history has allowed me a better understanding of my Wife and sometimes Women in general. I feel like a dickhead for saying that, but being able to know exactly how horrible some of the things that happen to Women are allows me to empathize with my Wife and other Women moreso than I probably would be able to if I didn’t have a female history.

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A Multitude of Happenings.

I apologize for the inactivity recently, I have been exceptionally busy.
My Wife is now working longer hours, as am I so K has had to learn a bit more resilliance lately. My Wife and I manage our schedules well, and prioritize family time with K each day and on weekends, it just all happens a bit later and for shorter periods during the week now.

K is having to go to after school care more due to aforementioned things, and being a trooper about it all. His schedule moreso than ours has had to be altered because of his extra curricular activities being placed around times one of us is not working, and while he’s voiced a few really valid complaints for the most part he completely accepts this new reality, and understands the good that will come out of it.

He’s growing so much every day.

My Wife and I have noticed his behaviour escalating rapidly lately, his emotions more unstable and volatile than usual. We agree it’s due to hormonal changes – this has been compounded by physical changes as well as emotional then verified anecdotally with other Parent’s. Anyway; both of us grew up in a house with Sisters, and seeing as my history is different from many other Father’s I tend not to be able to draw on my own experiences of boyhood as much.

I’ve been reading some literature, speaking to other Parents and generally just checking in with K a hell of a lot. He’s a Mumma’s boy, but I’m around in the evenings more so I cop the brunt of emotional situations.

Parenting is fucking difficult. There is no time when a Parent has ceased learning, right alongside thier child.

It is the most rewarding, beautiful, amazing thing – being a Father. Never have I felt so blessed.

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post-transition:

Robert Eads and Southern Comfort

SOUTHERN COMFORT is a 90-minute feature-length documentary about the life of Robert Eads, a 52-year-old female to male transsexual who lives in the back hills of Georgia. “A hillbilly and proud of it,” he cuts a striking figure: sharp-tongued, bearded, tobacco pipe in hand. Robert passes so well as a male that the local Klu Klux Klan tried to recruit him to become a member.

Though his home is nestled among tranquil hills dotted with hay bales, Robert confronts a world as hostile to him as if he were an African American in the ante-bellum South. He was diagnosed with ovarian cancer, then turned away by more than two dozen doctors who feared that taking on a transgendered patient might harm their practice.

SOUTHERN COMFORT follows the final year of Robert Eads’ life. Beginning in spring, he falls deeply in love with Lola, a male-to-female. That summer, his mother and father drive ten hours to visit their “lost daughter,” a trip they know may be their last. His final dream is to make it to the Southern Comfort Conference in Atlanta, the nation’s preeminent transgender gathering. Beating the odds, he addresses a crowd of 500 and takes Lola to “The prom that never was.”

This was a very moving film. As a direct result of viewing this, I placed getting a hysterectomy on the top of my priority list.

Source: post-transition

C,d,g

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C: Celebrity crush?
Jodie Foster, Meg Ryan, Angelina Jolie.

D: If you could go back in time and change one thing, what would it be?
The sex I was born as.

G: If you had to rank yourself on a scale of 1 to 10, what would you be?
It doesn’t specify the gradient of this question. 1 being low and 10 being high, I say 3. I have very low self esteem, and I’m working on improving this.

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thatsnothowitworks:

kindofaprick:

transmandad:

I’m so pissed off I missed out on all the perksofdatingatransguy action. Boo.

you didn’t miss much. 

just two children being offensive, rude and immature.

Supposedly two.

I first heard about it from your incredulous reblogs of said content. I feel the same way, however the jerk in me feels that they could have provided much antagonistic fun.

Extremely Invasive Questions. GO.

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A: Are you a virgin?
B: 3 biggest pet peeves
C: Celebrity crush?
D: If you could go back in time and change one thing, what would it be?
E: Do you smoke?
F: Do you drink?
G: If you had to rank yourself on a scale of 1 to 10, what would you be?
H: Longest relationship and with who?
I: 5 turn ons
J: 5 turn offs
K: What’s the biggest lie you have ever told?
L: Would you ever date someone of another race?
M: What is your sexual orientation?
N: Top 5 traits you look for in a person that you want to have a relationship with
O: Who are you crushing on right now?
P: Who is your bestfriend?
Q: Your guilty pleasure?
R: Who was your first kiss?
S: Do looks matter to you?
T: What kind of underwear are you wearing?
U: How big is your penis or for a girl, how big are your boobs
V: How far have you gone?
W: Do you like it when people play with your hair?
X: Are you circumcised?
Y: Do you name your private parts?
Z: What are your three favorite blogs?

Here’s some more for ya! Go for it, I won’t refuse a question.

What the heck, its been forever since I posted one of these…