A friend of mine suffers from Aspergers disease and is engaged to be married relatively soon. However, there’s trouble in paradise, as her fiance only just recently realized that she is an DMAB transwoman. Now my friend is having difficulty accepting that she is marrying a woman and is afraid of what changes will come about once her fiance starts HRT. Do you have any advice that I could offer her to help her accept her fiance’s transition?

The best advice I think you could give her would be to speak to a therapist about it.

They are professionals and are specifically trained know to best help a person deconstruct bothersome circumstances and deal advice.

Good luck, I’m sure your support is helping your friends out more than you realize.

Breaking the silence.

krispeter013:

So I told my mum a while back that I was going to transition. And she never said anything and last night she said something… In the car… And it’s when I said I was going to a support group and thought it would be good and I explained what it was and then she said….. Is it so you won’t have those silly thought anymore is it to make people normal again.

My heart broke…

Show your Mum the post-transition tumblr or other tumblrs of transmen who are “transitioned” to perhaps help her along with thenidea that you’re not abnormal?

: trademarkboy: Hey guys, I have a question. When any of you went to…

trademarkboy:

Hey guys, I have a question.

When any of you went to your endo, did you have to undergo a body exam?

I was slightly uncomfortable at the thought, and questioned him. He responded with a good reason for my chest; but downstairs he said it was so he could monitor my growth. It…

I did not have to do this for an endo at all, either chest or downstairs.
I did have to have an internal pre hysto as well as several examinations on my chest prior to surgery though.

: trademarkboy: Hey guys, I have a question.
When any of you went to…