300th follower shoutout. Cheers.
Somebody come and finish this damn stageplay I have to write.
I am ¾ through and I despise what I have written thus far, to the point where I do not want to finish it.
I can’t even just kill everyone because the entire play has been fairly emotional and negative. Gosh darn climatic ending without negativity, how you evade me.
transmandad wanted:
… the situation of a Trans man father trying to teach his Son to pee standing, but having a fairly tough time because well.. you know! … Basically I wanted the dad to be all “here ill show you….uh…woops maybe not” and then the realization that comes with not being able to do things other dads do.
ah, something to look forward to!
This is magnificent, thanks!
I would love to write more here, but I’m exceptionally busy with my studies, work and maintaining a household/ trying to raise a human being/be a husband.
If you’ve got anything you’d like me to write about, feel free to ask/submit.
I find it much easier when I’ve been prompted with something such as that.
I do have something I plan on writing about when I feel I have enough time to dedicate to the topic. I’m not really fond of being half-assed.
Happy Mothers Day to all the Mother’s out there, specifically Aussie Mum’s who celebrate today.
My Wife is sleeping in, K and I have each got her presents and made cards.
We are also cooking her bacon and eggs for breakfast together.
who was your top surgeon?
Dr Megan Hassall in Sydney, Australia.
I’m such a snarky bastard sometimes but ultimately I do care about people. I was really confused once too, I said things I laugh at now. And everyone was embarrassing as a teenager.
I don’t know what this post is, I just want to say that I am more than happy to offer advice and information because human beings are varied and go through their confused stages differently.
If this is uncomfortable or you don’t want to answer that’s fine but I was wondering, did you carry your child or did you donate eggs or did you do the thing where they change the eggs into sperm or what? sorry, just trying to understand my furture options if i ever want to have kids.
This isn’t uncomfortable at all.
K is not my biological child, he is my Wife’s biological child that she had 11 months before we met. K’s maternal “dad” left shortly after K was born, he was an unplanned pregnancy and my Wife did not feel abortion was an option she wanted to take.
Turns out, K had a Father all along. When we met, I wasn’t called Dad straight away (obviously). Soon it became very clear that I wasn’t going anywhere at all – and my Wife asked me if I wanted to be K’s Father. The rest, as they say, is history.
hey. I’m a trans dad too. my son just turned 1.
Awesome, congrats on your Son’s birthday. 1 is such a great age.
You are almost the same age I was when I became a Dad to K at 11months old. I was 18.
what i hear when you say…
i don’t normally like guys, but you’re an exception.: you have tits and a vagina and that makes it okay. i mean, you’re not QUITE a man, right?
wow, you pass really well! good job!: it’s awesome that you don’t look like what you are. wouldn’t that be awful? i know you didn’t ask for my opinion but you must need the compliment, you poor thing.
when are you going on hormones/getting surgery?: you must hate your body, when are you fixing it? i mean, you’re not a real man until you do, so there’s not even an ‘if’ here.
ugh, stop complaining when i get your pronouns wrong!: i don’t want to understand your feelings, please accommodate me.
you should totally meet my trans friend (who has nothing in common with you): you’ll get along great, i mean, you don’t have any other interests, do you?
transmandad 