Early thirties post-transition stealth Father and Husband
E: Have you ever cheated on somebody?
No, I haven’t.
S: What is your sexual preference (straight, gay, bi, pan, ace)?
I am bisexual.
T: What is your favorite sexual position?
Any that involves my Wife.
X: Do you do drugs? Drink? Smoke?
Don’t do drugs, Drink socially and unfortunately smoke cigarettes.
A: Who was the last person to piss you off? What did they do?
B: Do you miss your ex? What would you do to get them back?
C: If you had to choose between your best friend or your significant other dying, who would you choose?
D: Everyone has a few demons, what’s your worst one?
E: Have you ever cheated on somebody?
F: Are you a virgin?
G: Do you believe in ghosts?
H: If you knew your girlfriend/boyfriend would be truly happier without you, would you leave?
I: If you liked someone with a terminal illness, would you still date them knowing they might not live much longer?
J: If you sold your soul, what would it be for?
K: Would you ever kill someone? What would be a good reason?
L: Have you ever told a big lie, one that you felt bad for? Did you ever come clean?
M: Is there anything that you’d never do for any amount of money?
N: Would you consider yourself vain or narcissistic?
O: Are you open minded, or do you judge people and things before you give them a chance?
P: Politics, what are your thoughts on them?
Q: Do you prefer peace and quiet, or loud chaos?
R: Religion, what is yours? Do you believe in a god?
S: What is your sexual preference (straight, gay, bi, pan, ace)?
T: What is your favorite sexual position?
U: Has anyone you knew ever died? If so, who?
V: Do you ever want children?
W: If you could live anywhere in the world, where would it be?
X: Do you do drugs? Drink? Smoke?
Y: Is there anything you wouldn’t do for love?
Z: Would you ever have sex for money?
Unfortunately I did not.
I medically transitioned when I was legally able to, at 18 years old – as my parents were not willing to be supportive with regards to the medical side of things.
I have always had a short stature, especially when comparing my height to the rest of my family – but unfortunately I had finished all the growing I was able to do prior to the introduction of T.
Growth plates are fickle things; if you begin medical transition early enough (or before your growth plates fuse) you may be able to benefit from some height growth, alongside other body parts.
I think perhaps my feet grew half a size, but I can’t be exactly sure because I never really bothered to find out my actual foot size to begin with. Other people I have know that are on T have reported an increase in foot size, however – so it’s not totally impossible.
As far as hand size goes; same deal, I didn’t experience any change. I am relatively happy with the overall size of my hands, just wish my fingers weren’t to thin, long and bony – purchasing a wedding band was an absolute nightmare. I had to get a men’s ring sized down to a very small size.
If anyone else has any experiences, feel free to chip in?
I would sincerely like a dog to join our family, however after the last week of dog sitting for my Mother-In-Law; I now realise that our family’s cat will just not let that happen.
Or if we simply did get a dog, she would never ever forgive us.
She has been walking around meowing, complaining that she can’t sit in her favorite spots anymore because suddenly there’s a dog trotting about the house and she’s petrified it will try to eat her food or sit on her favorite blanket.
Night time is a disaster; waking up every couple of hours to seperate a very cranky cat and a wonderfully stupid dog who does not compute that our cat simply does not want to play, but eat her instead.
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Obviously procrastinating. ~700 words to go on a paper and I don’t think I can finish what I want to state in such a small word count. Overwrite and cull…or procrastinate.
People who know someone who is trans, point them out and say “that person over there was born the opposite sex” because you think you’re allowed to out them because you know
Yeah
You’re kind of a piece of shit
Never – but speak to your Doctor about concerns if you have any.
((Finally. Progress. I love you Germany))
that mustache
//Claps
I noticed I was able to concentrate more, but I feel that was mainly due to the fact that my internal turmoil regarding my transsexuality was subdued once I got the transition ball rolling, so to speak.
I have not noticed any difference in my marks with High School vs. University – if anything my ability to write essays has improved, as have other academic qualities. I don’t see this as a product of testosterone, more age and maturity.
Personally, Testosterone did not affect my body type. I’m a mesomorph and was also before I began testosterone, just a little less able to build muscle. In the first few years of T, I put on a bit of mass – kind of like “puppy fat”, it was mainly water retention which my body sorted out on it’s own.
Honestly, if you’re very worried about this you should speak to a Doctor about possible side effects of Testosterone; it’s not a given that you will experience T the same as another person – it’s all down to genetics.
Perhaps you need to really question why it is that you want Testosterone – you mentioned you were “considering going ftm” – this is not a decision, really. It’s something I felt I had to do in order to survive.
If you were on a deserted island for the rest of your life with no one else; would you still transition?
Can you see yourself as “female” for the rest of your life, even if it’s uncomfortable?
justacynicalirishman:
Also it’s nearly tmi Tuesday so you should ask me shit.
transmandad 