(2) My breasts dont feel like they belong there. I bought a binder online. My wife thinks its a sports bra. I’ve bever been open about this to her. Well she knows i dont feel like a woman all the time…
(3) But here is the thing.. i strongly feel like i want to be a dad for my son. Im so confused. I look on the internet and see al those strong transman who live their own life and i get jalous .Telling my feelings is soo hard.. how did you handle this?..
Hey, thanks for messaging me. Apologies for how long my response has taken, I have been exceptionally busy with work and often forget to check this blog.
It’s certainly exceptionally difficult when attempting to work out where you fit on the gender side of things. A couple of questions I asked myself and often encourage other people to ask if they’re questioning transition are: – Can you see yourself living as a Woman for the rest of your life? – Can you see yourself accepting yourself as a Woman? – Do you need this so much that you are willing to risk negative reactions? – Are you willing to take hormones and see Drs for the rest of your life on a regular basis?
They may seem harsh, but the first question is particularly telling. If you can see yourself living as a Woman for the rest of your life, even if you’re unhappy, you may way to reconsider transition.
I got a ‘store bought’ packer and like you felt it was a waste of money. I started experimenting and making these. I drop them into my boxer briefs that I have modified to hold them. I buy just regular old WalMart brand boxer briefs (frugal) and sew around the fly area to make an enclosed pouch of it. I left a small opening in the fly to put the packer in and out. It looks so good that I am totally confident stripping down to just my underwear around any other man, even the guys in the locker room that know I’m trans. I did a lot of visual research (checking out the competition) online of bio-men (biological men) in underwear and mine passes for theirs. It has a soft, bouncy look and feels incredibly comfortable. Frugal frugal frugal. Since it never touches my body directly (it’s inside the pouch) I only make a new nylon cover very seldom. I also have made different sizes for various reasons. Pretty much a drop it in and forget it thing and it looks good in underwear, pants, sweatpants and shorts. For my boxer style swim suit I have one that hangs off a harness inside the suit. Simple, comfortable and for me frugal.
With regards to the last photoset/packer thing I reblogged;
I really really need to know if anyone has reviewed these or had personal experience(s)? They look too good to be true, and my heart stopped in my chest when I saw the uncut models. They’re exactly what I am after.
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A thousand thank you’s.
Exactly what I was after – unfortunately it seems these are too good to be true – think I’ll save my money.
FWIW: This is pertinent reading for anyone considering a sinthetics packer, I feel.
With regards to the last photoset/packer thing I reblogged;
I really really need to know if anyone has reviewed these or had personal experience(s)? They look too good to be true, and my heart stopped in my chest when I saw the uncut models. They’re exactly what I am after.
Someone, anyone?
[cue constant refreshing to see if anyone has answered yet…. seriously guys please – also the video link in the photoset didn’t work for me?]
They come in single density and upgrade multi density hyperrealistic. Circumcised to uncircumcised. Sizes range from 5, 6,7, and 11 inches. They have two different backs. Packer style which can be worn with medical adhesive and dildo back worn with a harness. They do color match for all skin tones. They have flaccid and erect models.
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