Announcement

drakensberg:

Hi everyone. It’s Nick here. I have been checking John’s blog and my blog frequently since he posted a very worrying text post on here a few days on. He has received many lovely messages and it’s clear that there are a lot of people he has had such a positive impact on and helped over the course of running this blog. Some of you care so deeply and I wish John
could have always cared about himself and seen himself the same way some
of you see him. You deserve and need to know what has happened. I am
just so sorry it’s not good news.

John was found deceased today.
He was the best friend anyone could ever ask for and I hope all of you
have your own John in your own life. I can’t even tell you how much he
means to me and how badly I wish he could have felt about himself the
way his family and close friends saw him. He is and was brilliant. Let’s
keep him alive in all the ways we know how. He has a very special place
in my heart and I am so glad so many of you were touched by him in the
same way.

Remember the positives. John would want you to do that.

Vale, John.

Rest in Peace.

Words cannot express just how deeply this news has affected me.
My sincerest condolences to his Family and Friends, especially you – Nick.

dont-ever-show-weakness:

Dreams come true!!

send me the address if you want some dip. I don’t mind at all

You’re too kind. I love dip so much but I hve t order it from overseas and it costs a ton – if it even gets through customs.

I could never accept though – I hate feeling in debt to someone.

You’re rad as hell for offering, I appreciate that alot.

Do your in-laws know that you are trans? My girlfriend’s parents do not know that I am and I plan to ask her to marry me soon. Any advice?

I met my now wife when I had just begun physical transition. At that stage, I was still getting misgendered occasionally (although I had been living as male for a while) and I was much more open about my situation, because I felt I owed an explanation to those around me.

So they know, and always have. It’s been a blessing, to be honest – they’re wonderfully supportive and certainly don’t see me as less of a Father to thier Grandson, or less of a man in general due to it. They were of course trepidatious at first, but I feel that was more due to me being a new presence in thier Daughter’s life than me happening to have been born female. 

My Father-in-Law literally tells me that I’m his “Favorite Son-in-Law”, and my Mother-in-Law approves greatly of our Marriage.
So I guess my situation is different, but if they can see how thier Daughter feels about you – and you give them no reason to doubt your integrity; there’s nothing stopping you from marrying the Woman you love.

You don’t have to tell them about your history, you don’t owe anyone anything. This is your private life, and you get to choose who, when, how and if that information is shared. Good luck man.

Hey! So I just saw a picture of your STP and I was just wondering is that the peecock or is that the FreeTom? Because I have been looking back and forth and the pleasure part of that looks to be the FreeTom so I just wanted to be sure. I am also curious to know, because I’ve only ever been able to find the 5″ on the FreeTom website and it just looks HUGE. I’m only 5’3″ so I’m pretty small. Thanks!

Hey man, it’s a Freetom and it is rather large. I’m still figuring out if it’s something I can use every day or not.
I think this is the 4.5” version, but to be honest I actually forget what I ordered.

I have the 3.5” peecock, and it’s much more managable however the realism isn’t on par.