Is it difficult to pee with a 3.5″ STP? I think you said you had a 3.5″ PeeCock. I was thinking about ordering the ErotiCreations STP, but I couldn’t decide between the 3.5″ and 5″. I don’t want to piss myself if the 3.5″ is too short, but 5″ seems pretty big for packing.

It’s not too difficult, but with certain pants I do wish it were longer in the shaft.

This is a very individual thing, but for what it’s worth I could never see myself feeling comfortable with something 5" long in my underpants all day.

I’ve heard someone say to me before: the cheapest car to own is the one you already have. Although it will cost more than the car is worth, it may/likely will be cheaper than buying something new. Another thing you could do is keep an eye out for something on Craigslist. I know you’re going through a lot though, and I know it might not be easy, but I hope that you’ll be able to figure something out with your vehicle situation. Wishing you luck!

I generally agree, which is why we’ve spent a bunch of money getting two different mechanics to look at it, then quote for repairs.
The head gasket is blown, and due to our rural location parts need to be sent away not only for repairs, but some diagnostics as well. That, ontop of the fact that a head gasket repair is a hefty sum in and of itself, and our car’s 17 year old age alongside very high milage means we can get a better car than we currently have for cheaper or the same as repairs will cost on the old one.

I really wish the car was worth more in it’s current state, but it’s basically scrap metal because no one around here wants to fix an old shitty car anyway, even if they have the know-how or time.

Thanks so much for the kind words, it’s greatly appreciated.

toughasbro:

transmandad:

Today our car blew up, so there’s that.

It’s parked on the side of the road, and we’ll get it towed to the mechanics tomorrow but like, I think it’s the damn head gasket.
There goes literally the entireity of our “house savings” account.

I feel ya. I too have a blown head gasket. And a broken cambelt on another car. And I’m literally on the driveway investigating whether the third car has a blown thrust bearing or not.

One step forward, two steps back. 

Sorry to hear you’re also in the midst of car hell. I really hope things get better for you soon – and I hope your thrust bearing isn’t blown on your third car. As they say, when it rains, it pours hey?

*sigh*
At least we have my shitty “to work and back” bomb car so my family is not literally stranded. Today is Sunday, nothing can be done. Fuckit – may as well have a beer.

Today our car blew up, so there’s that.

It’s parked on the side of the road, and we’ll get it towed to the mechanics tomorrow but like, I think it’s the damn head gasket.
There goes literally the entireity of our “house savings” account.

I just want you to know, that as a just-figuring-shit-out 19 yr old trans guy, your blog has been a literal life saver. I’ve had some rough days and been pretty terrified lately and it’s nice to see someone who is living as more than ‘just trans’, if you get my meaning? It’s reassuring, calming, much more than the #reallivetransadult tag, yeah? thanks for being you

This was a lovely message to find in my inbox, thank you.

The entire reason why I began this blog was to let other guys know it can be done, you can transition and just live as male. Not as transmale. Just male.
You can have a Kid, get Married, whatever you want.

As an aside, I’d never heard of the #reallivetransadult tag – that’s an interesting concept.

Thanks again for the kind message.