You’ve said you purchased about 10 different prosthetics over the years. Would you mind detailing which ones and what you didn’t like about them? I feel like I’m going to lose a lot of money finding the right prosthetic.

I will certainly do this, however I want to give this the attention it deserves so you might have to wait until I have time enough to dedicate a couple of hours to write the post.

Ultimately; my experiences won’t help you personally as every dude likes his junk a bit different.

I just got my Freetom Rogue and the paper that came with it said to only use water based condoms instead of silicone and I’ve looked all over Google and I have no idea what brand condoms to use that are water based. I read someone’s previous ask to you and they asked what kind of condoms you use and you mentioned Durex. I have a Durex condom but it doesn’t say if it’s water based or not. I don’t want to ruin my prosthetic.

The ones I use are certainly water-based, but it should be easy enough to work out if yours are or not.

You’ll have to open a condom to do it though – but you can see and feel the difference between silicone lube and water based, as water based will start to dry and become ‘tacky/sticky” when you rub it between your fingers after a while whereas silicone comes out more like an oil and is far less viscous.

If you’re super concerned; call the condom manufacturer and ask directly if the particular brand and type of condom you want to use is water-based lube.

Failing that; buy unlubed condoms and water based lubricant and you’re good to go.

dont-ever-show-weakness:

freetomprosthetics:

FreeToM Prosthetics Newest model! The All NaturAL is the most realistic and affordable prosthetic on the market! The All NaturAL 4 in 1 prosthetic is 6 ½" in length and tapers off to 5 ½" in girth. The testicles and foreskin on this prosthetic are everything! It’s functions are: pack, pee, play and pleasure. It was deliberately designed to fold in the middle, to make packing much easier and has a sturdy enough cup for urination. All of our prosthetics are molded off of volunteer cis males for an ultra realistic look an the All NaturAL is definitely the most realistic prosthetic we sell! The hollow rod that comes inside the prosthetic is acid, fungal and bacteria building resistant. All hollow rods inside are removable for proper cleaning and sturdy enough for play. The hollow rod inside also allows you to bend the prosthetic in whichever position you’d like and can also be bent downward for comfortable packing. The FtM Pleasure Slide is also molded into the prosthetic itself and was designed to slide up and down the FtM genitalia. The All NaturAL is the most efficient prosthetic we sell and because of that, it’s a tad more expensive.
We HIGHLY suggest this prosthetic with PAINT PLUS! It just makes it THAT much more realistic. The pictures are all done WITH paint plus. Your prosthetic will come without paint if Paint Plus is not purchased.

Please note that this prosthetic has realistic features such as: skin folds, bumps on the testicles (normal) and realistic foreskin on the tip. Because this is so realistic and the skin is so thin, sometimes the skin on the prosthetic comes with tiny nicks here and there because of the realistic folding skin. It’s nothing that will affect the aesthetics of the prosthetics and you would have to get up VERY close to see the slight nicks.

I’d be all over this shit if it wasn’t an stp and could attach to skin with medical adhesive. Someone make that happen.

For some reason, reading through your blog made me emotional. (Background info: I didn’t feel like I was trans until a little earlier this year, and I’m 15 (I’m still doubting myself, since it’s a late age)) Anyway, why I felt like I was gonna cry with joy: You’re a transexual father, and I never wanted to be a mother, but thinking about being a father feels right, but I didn’t think I could be one if I was trans. (Its stupide reasoning, I know) So yeah, thanks, I guess.

That’s really beautiful, I’m glad you could find positivity in this blog. It’s why it exists.
I am glad that this blog can be utlised as a platform for encoraging positive outlooks on people’s future – because I clearly remember a time where I couldn’t possibly have envisioned this for myself at all. And it’s important, at the risk of sounding cliche’, for people to know it “get’s better”. 

To be honest, I never wanted to become a parent of any description, even after I came out as trans. But when I fell in love with my Wife, K came along with that package.
It’s the best thing that’s ever happened to me in my entire life; Fatherhood. I can’t articulate how beautiful, wonderful, terrifying, concerning and pure the feeling of being a parent is.

I was wondering how you got to your point? I’m having a rough time lately with all of this and everything is at a boiling point as I’m about to have my first endo appointment for HRT. I’m dreading being out to literally everyone (small town, dangerous shit) because everyone here knows me, and yet I can’t move because I’m a poor student. I can’t do it quietly because I’m recognizable and because of shit like facebook. You seem successful and awesome. This seems impossible. How???

FIrstly, I can tell you’re at a crux here and I urge to you keep speaking about this to people. If you don’t have anyone you can trust, feel free to message me like you have here.

As for “how I got here” – that’s a whole long story. Things that made my transition easier were the fact that I literally moved half way across the country when I began medical transition. New city, new people, no one from my old “self”. I removed myself from my home town for at least a few years.
Initially I pushed everyone away that knew me from “before” – including
friends and family. I pissed a lot of people off, and if I could do my
time again I’d probably make more of an effort to explain why I felt I
had to retreat. 

This isn’t feasible for most people, and I realise I am exceptionally priveliged. I moved straight in with my now Wife and Son, and my Wife supported me for the first couple of weeks while I was looking for work and arranging University.

All in all, it’s been the last few years where I have finally felt settled enough to begin to feel somewhat comfortable with my place in life. I am by no means “successful and awesome” – these measures are subjective. I am human, and I have dark days too. We’re all in this together.

So I’m accidentally doing two people’s jobs per week, one of which is running an entire company.
Hopefully won’t be for much longer but I’ll have to stay silent for a little bit.
Sincerest apologies!