TFW your kid leaves for his first school camp. 😢
We are such clingy parents it’s ridiculous.
Omg. We just got K’s 5th grade school photos back and I’m dying.
These are the best portraits of him at school thus far. So grown up. He looks like his Mother.
K goes on his first school camp this weekend. He’s going to a major city, at an awesome camp facility and doing tons of cool activities.
Meanwhile I’m having an internal heart attack stressing if he’s going to be okay, knowing it’s a 9 hour one way drive to get him if anything happens.
TMD; the eternal stress head.
Thanks for explanation then, and I totally understand. I plan to be like that aswell after t and top. Also, you’re a greatest inspiration, and I am so happy for you, your Wife and your Son. I aspire to reach your point someday, and despite the fact that i follow you for not so long, you became my personal hero. I hope you have a great day.
Very very kind words, thank you.
I feel blessed to wake up every day to my gorgeous Wife and Son.
As fo being a hero – we all are. Become your own personal hero. Be the man your child self would have looked up to.
Hi! I have a question, maybe a little bit silly. I am also trans but it’s the first time I see someone identyfing as trans stealth. What does it mean? I hope you have a great day!
Stealth means (for me) not disclosing my trans status unless absolutely necessary (such as a medical emergency).
I do not tell anyone I am trans – that’s my own personal business and I view it as an unfortunate medical condition.
I’m at work, but just wanted to say that I reached 3000 followers this morning.
It’s strange and incredibly humbling to know that many of you read. Thank you.
I saw your post about being raised Catholic and going through everything that entails. I’m also trans (In a non-bianary sort of way) and I still live with my parents, and honestly? It’s a mess. It’s kinda good to see someone else has gone through the same things.
We’re definitely not alone in this. There’s tons of people out there like us who have either had to, or still are navigating these sorts of issues.
Dialogue is key here. We all need to have these conversations to create understanding.
Just found your blog and it’s pretty fantastic. The honesty, the generosity and the openness are really rad. I’m cis, married, poly and currently dating a transman. He’s stealth too, and it’s nice to hear more about the challenges that entails. Helps me understand and support him more. Continue rocking on.
Wow, thank you.
It’s nice to know this blog is helpful at any level.
I certainly can’t speak for anyone’s challenges aside from my own, but I hope that by exploring some of them other people can take something from that.
This was a lovely message to receive, I genuinely appreciate it.
Thank you.
I have a day off today as I worked overtime last week and get Time Off in Leiu rather than a payout.
I’ve just finished scrubbing the bathroom, doing all the dishes and put a load of washing on, and when I looked at the time it was 9:17am. If I have chores, I like to get them done early so I can choose how to spend the rest of the day without an inner nag.
K is home today with a sore stomach, so he’s chilling on the couch. Poor kid.
can you post more about just doing regular stuff? like a lot of info is available about what to do before and during transition, but it’s nice to hear that you’ll be able to just be a regular person some day and have other things to focus on besides being trans and surgeries and what not. plus it’d be cool to hear about how to navigate certain situations even post transition. it’s cool if you don’t want to share too much of your personal life though, totally understandable!
I’ve been thinking about doing this but I wasn’t sure if it was something followers would even be interested in.
I’ve been trying to open up a bit more.
transmandad 