Happy Festive Season and Happy New Year to all my wonderful followers.
K and our family are currently at my parents house surrounded by extended family and having a lovely time.
I’ve always been curious about how kids would react to having a trans dad. I want a family, but can’t help but feel like they’d probably hate me for it. How much do your kids know and does it cause problems?
I only have one child, my Son, and he knows everything there is to know about me being trans in basic terms.
He didnt always know, and his finding out was an accident – but it doesn’t bother him in the slightest. He forgets often, and does not see me as anything other than 100% male, 100% Dad.
Ugh. I just got offered my dream job, but it’s only 3 days a week and I can’t physically squeeze it in around my other jobs. Like; literal dream job.
I am pretty gutted. I’ve committed myself to my current main job, and leaving would mean that certain important projects just couldn’t go forward.
But this opportunity… it’s fucking ridiculous that I am having to turn down work out here. If only there were two of me…
My Wife and I just found out K’s best friend from school’s Mother died last night. And K’s best friend found her.
He’s 11.
That poor kid. I’m fucken shell-shocked and so very sad for them all.
His friend likely won’t be at school for the remainder of the year, which is only actually a week (of schooling). So K won’t know.
Far out.
What is a stealth marriage? Curious because I saw someone ask you. I’ve never heard of it?
I believe it’s when your Wife or Husband is not aware of your trans status.
For the record; my Wife is well aware. Lol.
what are your thoughts on stealth marriage? is that a shitty thing to do?
I don’t feel qualified to comment on other people’s choices.
I’m a trans boy waiting to have children as I wish to be pregnant someday, may I ask whether you’re the one carrying the baby (like if your partner is male or can’t conceive), or is it your partner having the baby? and if it’s you can I maybe know what it’s like, also have you gone through T yet? sorry for so many questions I’m just very curious and in a tough spot as both giving birth and going through T is very important to me but I’ve heard you can become infertile from being on T.
You must have gotten me confused with someone who is currently pregnant or waiting to give birth. My Wife and I are neiher.
My Wife carried our now 11 year old son, and it is something I never held any interest in whatsoever – now or then.
do you think a fully transitioned man would be able to pass for cis? would he be able to have sex with someone without outing himself?
Possible? Yes, it most certainly is. I know people who have done this.
My son’s name is Henry.
So many congratulations to you and yours.
I am overwhelmed with happiness for you all and I offer an open ear if you all ever need support.
Season’s Greetings everyone!
I’m flat out at work tying up loose ends before I take annual leave for the year, so my absence is warranted!
I’ll have three weeks off soon, so plenty of time to play catch up.
I look forward to it.