Early thirties post-transition stealth Father and Husband
Hey, sorry it’s taken me so long to get to this message.
At the time I met my Wife, I was somewhat “out” in that I had only recently begun T and was not passing 100% of the time. We also met in a “Queer” space – so I never came out to her. At least I don’t think I did.
Best idea yet. He gave me a drawing of us both for my Birthday recently.
I’m not sure it would be a very accurate depiction of me! 😂
Now this is another rad idea.
Hrm, interesting concept. I have many many talented artist friends…
When I reach 4k followers I’ll somehow post a cryptic selfie.
This whole “pre-teen” thing is a total trip! I’m constantly reading, informing myself and trying to be a better parent.
Raising a human being is difficult.
My view is that this is a very personal matter, and only you can decide.
I told my Son. You an read about it in my FAQs.
My father in law was concerned enough about making sure Rachel is fucking me enough that he had my mother in law talk to her about it while we were outside.
Rachel’s male coworkers respond with “that’s interesting” (which really means “I don’t approve”) when she reveals I’ll be the one staying at home with the baby.
I would also like to add that it’s very difficult to find expecting/parenting books for dads that aren’t all about how to deal with not getting to touch your wife’s tits or get laid when you want. I’m so over this entitled and childish mentality. Some of us are grown ass men with more important things to prep for. I hate to say it but man the fuck up.
So over it.
Ugh, that’s an…interesting position to take on your in-law’s part.
You’re going to be an amazing Father.
Over the last few months I’ve been seriously doubting the sincerity of all of my friendships. I’m not sure why, but it really sucks. I hate feeling like people only come around to get something from me. I also hate feeling like making and keeping friends is something I suck at.
I hear you on this.
I am turning 29 sometime soon. I always feel older than I actually am.
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