Hey, I’ve been following your blog for a few years now, and my wife and I are planning on having a baby in the next year or so, I’m also stealth and Ftm, we’re 20, and I’m just overwhelmed by what being a dad is going to be like. I guess I’m just reaching out and looking for someone in a similar boat? Any advice or anything would be greatly appreciated.

Hey – you should totally follow @dontevershowweakness – he’s a new Dad and is likely more help than someone who did the toddler thing years ago like myself.

Yeah so two weeks leave went rapidly and I am once again chasing my tail.

Have been feeling really off-kilter lately with regard to how absent I am parenting wise and aim to do something about it ASAP.

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ReelMagik 5″ Uncut Packer Review

Ordering & Shipping: 10/10 – Not much to be said here. Their site layout is easy to navigate and everything is clear and makes sense. The models and colors shown are good representations of the actual products. I ordered on a Friday evening, it was shipped out Monday, and I got that Friday. Not bad at all.

Packaging
: 8/10 – The packaging internally was perfect. It is pretty discreet, but “ReelMagik” is very clearly written on the package. Anyone who gets to your package before you can easily google that and probably assume what you ordered. That wasn’t an issue for me personally, but that’s a definite concern.

Aesthetic: 10/10 – This is seriously a beautiful fucking packer, especially for a basic single tone one. It looks realistic despite that, even when worn and poked out as you can see. The 3D balls lend a nice touch too. Not much else to say here. It’s just simply a great looking packer, hands down the best basic I’ve had so far.

Quality: 9/10 – This is a well crafted basic packer and exceeded my expectations. The only downside is you need to handle it with care, and this must be emphasized. It rips and tears easily. You can seriously cause tears by holding it incorrectly from its own weight. I may get a classic model when I have spare cash for this reason.

Price: 10/10 – The cost after shipping was about $70. I could have gotten it down to about $64, but wanted faster priority shipping. For everything you get with it, speed, quality, comfort, etc? I think that’s an extremely reasonable price. I’d easily be willing to drop $100 on this before shipping. 

Packing: 10/10 – I’ve always been into more realistically sized flaccid packers. 3.5 inches MAX. I just couldn’t ditch dysphoria with a floppy erection in my pants, which is what most 5 inch packers amount to. I was a bit hesitant to get such a large packer, but I loved the look and gave it a shot. I don’t regret it a bit. It looks like an actual large flaccid penis, not a boner someone shoved in a downward position. Based on my family, I would have likely had a large uncircumcised penis if I were born male, so I feel this fits me quite well.

As far as actual packing goes, it’s suuuuper comfortable! The soft option is totally worth the dusting. It’s like a slightly firmer marshmallow in texture, which helps for packing with a larger packer. Only downside is the back is very long, so it ends up covering a significant portion of my vulva, which can get uncomfortable after awhile and stimulate my clit with it being larger now to the point it’s annoying. I just move it up against my pubic area for the most part, which gives me a bigger bulge, more like I want, in certain pants. The few qualms I have are definitely not unmanageable. Also, for those who wear tight pants like me, this packer works perfectly as well.

One thing I like about having a larger packer is I pack simply by dropping it in some tight briefs which works for most of the day until the underwear stretches out. It’s really important to me that the packer rest against my anatomy. When not dusted it’s really sticky, so I don’t dust the back, and it helps keep it stuck to my body. WIth it being so squishy, it doesn’t stretch my briefs as bad, so I only have to change them daily instead of twice daily. Anyway, to sum it up, packing is easy, comfortable, and provides a realistic bulge and meets my needs.

Grab Test: Pass/Fail –  My ex noted that out of the dozens of packers I’ve had, this one passes the grab test best.

Would I recommend?: Yes/No – YES! I would recommend this packer to any medium to larger stature person looking for a comfortable and realistic, uncut packer that produces an average bulge.

Final thoughts: 57/60 – This is an awesome, comfortable packer and I highly recommend it to others. It’s the dick I’ve spent nearly a thousand dollars, if not more, trying to find. I WILL be upgrading to the classic and then the pack and play version eventually.

File under “things I wish to obtain”

It’s fucking incredible. Home. Our home.
I want to jump straight in and re-tile, sand back boards and polish, fix a million things… but first I need to live in it to prioritize.

It rained a lot today so I’ll pick up the truck tomorrow and get the big stuff/boxes/furniture then. We’ve done 4 loads or so of bits and pieces in our wagon so far and it’s made a hell of a difference to how much we have to do tomorrow.

Tonight willbe our last night in our rental.