This is the Birthday card I recieved from my Parents this year.

I always find it really funny that birthday cards for men usually have odd things like cars, wallets, watches and mobile phones on them. Especially when all of the illustrations are hillariously outdated.

This card is the epitome of my Parents; it really says a lot about them.

Anon:

If you don’t use an STP this is another great solution; a lot of men’s briefs have a fly that you pull your dick through to pee, but some of them are sewn like little pouches except for a small hole inside and out.

The underpants in the photo are what I am describing. You can just put the packer inside the little pouch – it’s not touching your skin, it’s holding the shaft down and in place and doesn’t move at all.

Packer shown for demonstration is 4" GV Sailor.

I do pack. One problem is that the one I use tends to stand out a bit, making it look a bit like an erection if I’m not careful. Does the packer you use do this as I also use the same harness you do?

It all depends on if it’s larger than 3.5" or not, as the smaller shafts stick out a bit more. I often find if it sticks out too much, I wear briefs or tighter boxer briefs and the issue is solved. Your underwear should hold it in nice and snug – I don’t use a harness 90% of the time and have yet to have problems.

I prefer the smaller shafted packers because I don’t like the feeling of the shaft having to almost be tucked under the balls do I don’t literally have it down my leg.

How often do you shave your face? Do you shave other parts of your body like chest etc?

If I wanted to be clean shaven, I’d have to have every day.

I am incredibly lazy but also have a long goatee, so I generally just shave below my jawline each day with a razor and then trim the rest besides the goatee to very small stubble. I can’t stand neckbeard – it pokes me in my own neck and no. Ew.

Also – I occasionally shave my chest to see how muscle progression is going.

Packing.

For those who follow that are male and happen to be trans; do you pack? With what? Have you found it to be triggering, or the opposite?

All of a sudden I’m really curious.

I pack every day. Quite often during the night, too – but I tend to find that my packer migrates out of my boxers. I am a very restless sleeper.

I use a 4" Gen 1 Peecock, and I really like it better than most other STPs I have tried due to the fact that I don’t need to touch my actual anatomy to pee with it.

I take submissions, don’t forget!

If you’re a trans Dad or trans Parent or interested in general, feel free to submit. If you’d prefer to stay anon just specify as such in your submission and I’ll ensure your confidentiality.

I’m procrastinating – if you’d like to help me do so by asking questions or submitting whatnot that would be appreciated, haha.

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